When two people marry or remarry later in life, there are more items
to sort through than just wedding gifts. Marriage between two people
with significant histories involves important decisions concerning
finances, children, assets,
housing, retirement and more. Here are five topics that you will want
to discuss with your potential spouse right away to ensure that your
best financial interests, both as individuals and as a couple, are
protected in your new union.
1. FinancesOlder couples have had more time to become accustomed to their personal habits and money management styles. They've also had more time to accumulate significant assets. This can make it a little harder to merge, especially when one partner is a spender and the other is thrifty.
If either partner has young children from a previous relationship, this will also introduce a set of issues to discuss, such as the payment or receipt of child support and possibly alimony.
Some steps can help you ease this transition. Here's some advice offered from the Financial Planning Association and the American Institute of Certified Public Accounts you can use walking down the aisle:
1. FinancesOlder couples have had more time to become accustomed to their personal habits and money management styles. They've also had more time to accumulate significant assets. This can make it a little harder to merge, especially when one partner is a spender and the other is thrifty.
If either partner has young children from a previous relationship, this will also introduce a set of issues to discuss, such as the payment or receipt of child support and possibly alimony.
Some steps can help you ease this transition. Here's some advice offered from the Financial Planning Association and the American Institute of Certified Public Accounts you can use walking down the aisle:
- Discuss each other's credit histories by reviewing credit reports and scores (Get a look at the various components and considerations of the personal and financial data that go into this dossier in Consumer Credit Report: What's On It.)
- Determine one another's indebtedness, and find out each other's comfort levels with debt
- Reach agreements about how to share paychecks, savings and bill payments
- Set up one joint banking account and an individual account for each partner
- Determine who will be the primary breadwinner
- Discuss investment strategies and styles, such as whether you are aggressive or conservative
- Figure out what level of savings you'll want to have as a couple
- Discuss what you envision for retirement
- Talk about where you plan to live
now and in the future
- If children from a previous marriage are in the picture, discuss how you will handle everyday child expenses and school tuition
- Prepare a formal agreement with any ex-spouses about the children
2. TaxesThe Internal Revenue Service (IRS) advises newlyweds to ensure that the names on their tax returns match the names registered with the Social Security Administration
(SSA). If not, your tax refund could be delayed. Also, consider whether
it makes more sense financially to file a joint tax return or to file
as "married filing separately", and make sure to straighten out any tax
issues with previous spouses before remarrying. In the event that your
spouse dies and you remarry before the end of the tax year, you can file
a joint return with your new spouse. The filing status of your deceased
spouse for his or her final return is married filing separately. (To
learn more, read The Tax Benefits Of Having A Spouse and Happily Married? File Separately!)
3. Estate PlanningEstate planning is imperative This organization
of your property is a means to make sure your families' financial needs
and goals are met after you've died. This planning is especially
important when children are involved or when a former spouse has died
because it ensures that they will receive the transferred property. Keep
in mind that state laws regarding estates vary. (For more on this
topic, read Getting Started On Your Estate Plan, The Importance Of Estate And Contingency Planning and Estate Planning Basics.)
Make sure to update your respective powers of attorney. Additionally, you may want to change your beneficiaries for the following items:
3. Estate PlanningEstate planning is imperative This organization
of your property is a means to make sure your families' financial needs
and goals are met after you've died. This planning is especially
important when children are involved or when a former spouse has died
because it ensures that they will receive the transferred property. Keep
in mind that state laws regarding estates vary. (For more on this
topic, read Getting Started On Your Estate Plan, The Importance Of Estate And Contingency Planning and Estate Planning Basics.)Make sure to update your respective powers of attorney. Additionally, you may want to change your beneficiaries for the following items:
- wills
- life insurance policies
- retirement accounts
- investment funds
- any other financial accounts
Whether a trust is affected or not will depend on who the
beneficiary or beneficiaries are and how the trust was set up, such as
whether it was within the context of a divorce agreement or child
support agreement, which could make the trust less flexible. Some
trusts, such as a qualified terminable interest property trust
(QTIP), offer protections for your first family. They ensure that if a
spouse dies, his or her assets will go to the children from his or her
first marriage rather than to the new spouse. (For more on trusts, read Should You Put Your Faith In A Trust? and Pick The Perfect Trust.)
Finally, the AARP advises those marrying later in life to have separate wills. This step is encouraged over a joint will because it eases potential complications with the future distribution of property, especially considering that life circumstances can change throughout the years you are married.
4. Social SecurityThe SSA advises newlyweds to contact it when a name change occurs to make sure earnings are properly reported. If marriage occurs after full retirement age and your Social Security benefit is less than half of your new spouse's, you can receive the Social Security benefit on your record plus an additional amount to bring you up to half of your new spouse's Social Security benefit. This will generally occur one year into the marriage.
Widows' or widowers' benefits aren't available to a spouse who remarries before age 60. If you remarry after age 60 (or after 50 if disabled), you will still receive benefits based on your former spouse's income history.
5. Medicaid
A marriage can affect benefits paid by Medicaid, a health benefits program for low-income individuals. Medicaid is based mainly on household income, so a person receiving Medicaid benefits who marries someone with a higher income could lose coverage. Check the eligibility rules for your state to learn how a marriage could impact Medicaid benefits.
ConclusionA marriage can affect most aspects of your financial life. Sit down as a couple to learn more about each other's present financial situations and future goals, and then visit with an attorney. Consider keeping most assets and property separate to minimize complications, especially when you have heirs. Most importantly, don't end your discussion at the aisle: maintain ongoing discussions about finances throughout your married life, for richer or for poorer.
Finally, the AARP advises those marrying later in life to have separate wills. This step is encouraged over a joint will because it eases potential complications with the future distribution of property, especially considering that life circumstances can change throughout the years you are married.
4. Social SecurityThe SSA advises newlyweds to contact it when a name change occurs to make sure earnings are properly reported. If marriage occurs after full retirement age and your Social Security benefit is less than half of your new spouse's, you can receive the Social Security benefit on your record plus an additional amount to bring you up to half of your new spouse's Social Security benefit. This will generally occur one year into the marriage.
Widows' or widowers' benefits aren't available to a spouse who remarries before age 60. If you remarry after age 60 (or after 50 if disabled), you will still receive benefits based on your former spouse's income history.
5. Medicaid
A marriage can affect benefits paid by Medicaid, a health benefits program for low-income individuals. Medicaid is based mainly on household income, so a person receiving Medicaid benefits who marries someone with a higher income could lose coverage. Check the eligibility rules for your state to learn how a marriage could impact Medicaid benefits.
ConclusionA marriage can affect most aspects of your financial life. Sit down as a couple to learn more about each other's present financial situations and future goals, and then visit with an attorney. Consider keeping most assets and property separate to minimize complications, especially when you have heirs. Most importantly, don't end your discussion at the aisle: maintain ongoing discussions about finances throughout your married life, for richer or for poorer.
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